Actually, you can’t make someone love you because truth to tell, people can’t help whom they love.
However, you can attract or magnetize someone enough to get them interested and then maybe, just maybe, if everything falls into place, fall in love with you.

Again, there is nothing you can do to make someone love you but there are ways you can use to let them see what a wonderful person you are.

It’s always a shot but it might not always get you what you want.

But if you’re the stubborn kind and want to give fate a nudge, here are some tips you can use to magnetize someone you love.

Remember, though: you have been warned. Begin as friends.

This is usually where good things begin and being friends with someone you love isn’t so bad.

It’s not as good as being in love with each other, but it can be a start to magnetize someone to get interested.

Right now, the person you love probably sees you in a one-dimensional light. There is a 50-50 chance that they’ll learn to like you once they get to know you.

Make a list.

Find out what your beloved likes and dislikes and make a list of every useful thing there is to know about them.

This will help you to magnetize someone you love.

Check every trait or quality that you have or use a rating system (1 being totally not you and 10 being you’re proof such a characteristic exists in a living person).

Be honest. You can’t pretend forever, you know.Get yourself in the line of sight. You can’t hope to attract or magnetize someone enough to make them love you if they can’t see you.

Increase your visibility by a notch, maybe two, hell – three. Four or five will be pushing it. You want to be visible, not annoying like an ever-present fly or wallpaper.

If the object of your desires goes to a certain gym, you might want to join the same outfit and get the same schedule. Or if your future partner plays tennis, learn to swing the racquet yourself. It won’t be easy, but then again, to magnetize someone and being loved is never easy so be prepared for possibilities.

Show your good side is a good way to magnetize someone you love. Especially your best angle and we don’t mean just your profile.

If your beloved likes someone who can cook, casually mention you make a mean lasagna or better yet, make the best lasagna you can and give it away to your friends, which of course, includes your special someone. Just make sure it’s really good.

Make it look casual.
There’s a certain thing about trying too hard that spells p-a-t-h-e-t-i-c and it could be difficult to swallow.

Make whatever you do to attract or magnetize someone you love look effortless and casual,
as if you didn’t think about it, as if it’s something you usually do.

xOxO,
ADDIE from UA&P’s i keep love real team.

http://www.americanchronicle.com/articles/24268

Hey All!

Enough with sad and serious love stories and quotes for now. I stumbled upon these Romantic Pick Up Lines while surfing the internet.

Enjoy!

I brought my library card, and I’m checking you out.

Do you have a map (No why?) I keep getting lost in your eyes.

If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.

Is it hot in here or is it just you?

I’d ask you for a light, but you’ve already lit my fire.

Do you believe in love at first sight… or should I walk by you again?

Nice dress can I talk you out of it.

Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven?

Check the girls clothing tag then say – That’s what I thought…made in heaven.

My boys over there bet that I wouldn’t be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the room. Want to buy some drinks with their money?

When God made you, he was showing off!

You had me at hello.

Ask a woman for the time. (Tells time) . Thanks. I just wanted to be able to remember the exact moment that I met you.

Excuse me, do you have any raisins? How about a date?

Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down; go ahead say no.

Shall we talk or continue flirting from a distance?

See my friend standing over there? He wants to know if you think I am cute!

You look like a girl that has heard every line in the book, so what’s one more going to hurt?

How much does a Polar Bear weigh? Enough to break the ice. Hi!

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Source: www.lovefatedestiny.com

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“Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop.”But are tears enough to chase away the pain of a break up?Most of us have been there. Some of us are there. And for sure, many of us will be there in the future. When the person you are in love with suddenly leaves you, you may think that your whole identity is shattered, and that you will never recover from the pain – but keep in mind, the sun will rise again, sooner or later.
Until then, here are some things you can do, to go through the painful post-breakup period a little easier.

First of all, don’t deny the breakup. It may seem difficult to accept that your heated love had such a chilling end, but the sooner you accept the fact that they’ve left you, the better it is. Don’t be self-pitying and don’t keep asking why – just try to get used to the idea that you’ll be single for now.
Don’t get close to the things your ex has left behind. Get rid of all the stuff they’ve left at your house, and all the presents you’ve been given for your birthday or for your 1- and-a-half-year anniversary. These objects bring you memories of the person that has hurt you, and every time you remember, you will start crying. I don’t suggest that you forget about them. After all, how can you forget someone you were in love with? It’d be like trying to remember someone you’ve never met. The best thing to do is to put all their things in a box and make sure that you‘ll lock it well in your closet. You can open it when you will be ready; when you will have got over then, and when this stuff can only make you smile.

Do cry! Crying may seem an obvious result of a breakup, but sometimes it’s not that easy to cry even though you really want to. But, what keeps us from crying? Denial of losing the one you love may be a reason. Sometimes it takes a while until you realize that they have made up their mind and won’t come back. Pride may be another. You might want to seem tough and prove to your friends (and yourself) that you don’t care. Stop being selfish and stubborn! Don’t hold your anger inside; by doing so, you will just be more stressed and snappy. Instead, release your pain. Let yourself cry! After a good cry, you will not only be relieved, but also be able to eat and sleep a lot easier (eating and sleep problems are very common after a break up). Notwithstanding the benefits of crying, it is still considered to be socially unacceptable. Unless you want to make a fool of yourself (and this will happen if you walk down the street and you sob every so often), avoid going to the places that remind you of them. Just stay home until you break into tears.

Spend time with your friends! No matter who left and how much you loved them, no matter how much you are hurt, it’s almost impossible to go through a break up without your friends. They are people who love you, and know you better than anybody. So, they will be willing to listen to you and help you. Your friends will always be there for you. They have seen you falling in love with the person that hurt you, they have heard your stories about your relationship, so they will support at this ugly period of your life. Don’t hesitate to follow them everywhere. If they ask you to go out any time of the day, it’s probably because they don’t want you to stay alone at home.

Do find a new hobby!A break up is an awesome opportunity to make a fresh start in your life. Your whole life has already turned upside down and the best thing to do is to make the best of it! Finding a new hobby is an enjoyable procedure, and will give you a good reason to wake up in the morning – you’ll have something to wait for. Don’t just stay at home watching TV. TV is not a hobby. Just ask yourself what it is that you like to do but you haven’t done it so far. Do you want to broaden your mind? Learn a foreign language! Do you want to feel more creative? Take acting classes! Do you just want to punch your ex in the face? Then you can vent your anger on the punching bag! Start practicing martial arts! Plus, getting started on a new hobby will not only give you a different perspective on your life and yourself, but it will also give you the opportunity to meet many new people who share the same interests and concerns as you. And, who knows? Maybe you will find someone that will make you smile again…

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-katzulueta

Why are men and women so different? Why is meeting people so frustrating? Why is being single such a hassle?You may be wondering: What’s to talk about? What’s the big deal? If so, ask yourself the next question…Where does a nice person meet someone to spend time with platonically, never mind romantically? Upon polling dozens of people (single and coupled), numerous answers came to light: bars, the library, the grocery store, through friends, personal ads, chat lines, blind dates, dating services, and so on. Interestingly, the people in relationships couldn’t give much input, where the singles were full of ideas. But still single!

When asked why this irony exists, the singles could not clearly explain what they are looking for.

The general problems with being single seem to be that we either don’t know what we want, or we have an unrealistic or contradictory view of what we’re looking for in a romantic partner.

What are men looking for in a woman?
• Passion • Femininity • Confidence • Sense of Humour • Nurturing • Trusting• Grace• Strength• Modesty• Dedication• Independent• Concerned

The list goes on and on and often seems paradoxical.

However, the old adage that men want a lady in public and a tramp in the bedroom has remained true throughout history.

What are women looking for in a man?
• Sensitivity • Confidence • Sense of Humour • Moral • Team Minded • Gentle • Strength• Humility• Dependable• Adventurous• Independent• Passionate

Not so different from the men’s list, a woman wants a sword-toting knight in shining armour who won’t take any crap from anyone but her.Women want to play Lois Lane to their own personal Superman. Men want their lives to be comparable to an episode of I Dream of Jeannie.

Some of us want the feeling of control but can’t resist the individuality and passion that comes with a real human.

Others of us want to be taken care of but on our own terms.

Granted, we are as different as Mars versus Venus, apples and oranges, or night and day. But think about it: planets are planets, fruit are fruit, and time is time. Are we really so different after all?

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-posted by KATZULUETA

The right space
Another important aspect about ending a relationship with grace is where you choose to break the news to your partner. Try not to do this is in a public place like a restaurant as there might be too many people around and it might inhibit you from saying everything you want. Instead, choose a place where both of you can feel comfortable.

Do it personally
The worst thing you can do while breaking up with someone is to end your relationship over the phone or via e-mail. Whether or not your relationship was good or bad, your partner deserves to know this in person. you must make time to meet your partner and then do it face to face.

Be simple
There’s no need to put him or her through the history of your decision to break-up. They do deserve an explanation, but save your partner (and yourself) the long-winded reasons of exactly why and how things went sour.

The consequences
When you end a relationship, you have to face the consequnces. so before you break-up, be sure you have completely thought it out and don’t do it on an impulse. Think of all possible consequences both good and bad and then make a move.

Ending a relationship is never easy, but it doesn’t have to be hell

from www.love-lectures.com
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-KATZULUETA

What if you give your everything to that one person and they just suddenly realize that one day, you are not that right person to spend that forever with? After all, forever doesn’t come to everyone…

How do you pick up your life after that? You compensate, try to be happy? isn’t that a sorry way of living? You aim for what was once there even though you know it’s never going to be that way again because you’ve already anchored your heart on something you’ll never have.

SO what if? Do you still believe in that soulmate of yours?

You still can. I think that the heavens are nice enough to find us another one that will make us happy and feel loved. we just have to find that “soulmate factor” within them. It’s a hard search and I’m also not siding with the other extreme that there are many chances at true love. There isn’t. I just think that at different times in your life, there will always be someone who will be that perfect soul mate for you. For some, it’s just one person because you grow up and grow old with them. for others, there are two people… that one great love when you were growing up… and that one true love that you share your last days with. It might not be the same love but the intensity and the passion behind both is, I believe, incomparable and as real as it can get. It all depends on how hard you close your eyes and believe that you’ll find it again.